Since my last blog post (way back in June 2013), my life has been full of change and 'all things new'! I graduated from college, worked at Walt Disney World in the Disney College Program, got engaged and then married, started my first big girl job and built a brand new house with my husband. I would say I have experienced more 'life-changing milestones' in the matter of a year than deemed normal for recent college graduates!
Growing up, I was never good with change. Whether it was moving schools, trying out for a sports team, attending a kids Bible study or going to camp, the anxiety of dealing with something new was very overwhelming. My mind would be overtaken with negative thoughts, nervousness and unwavering worry. While I still struggle with this issue every so often, it comforts me to know that I'm not the only person wrestling with this daily battle. I'm also comforted by the fact that I have a God who is aware of my struggles, loves me for who I am and always has my back in times of need.
His word teaches us, supports us and, in this case, comforts us no matter what season of life you find yourself currently in. As you process and deal with the changes you're experiencing in life, don't forget to turn directly to the scripture for ultimate guidance and reassurance. Here are some of my favorite verses and passages (that I was comforted with as a kid) to lean upon in a time of worry about change and the unpredictability of the future:
1 Peter 5:7-9 - Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings.
Joshua 1:9 - Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.
Matthew 6:25-34 - Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear....But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Philippians 4:6-8 - Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excelled or praiseworthy - think about such things.
Just remember:
- You are not alone in your struggle.
- You are stronger than you may think.
- Stay focused and maintain a positive mindset.
- Seek the Lord in everything you do.
After the last year and a half I've had, I'd say I'm a certified Pro at dealing with change and have definitely come a long way since my childhood tendencies. I've learned that even though life is unpredictable and full of unexpected moments, we can find hope in the truth that God wants each of his children to flourish, and not be harmed. (Jeremiah 29:11) It is my prayer that you find strength in times of weakness, love in times of inadequacy and peace in times of trouble. Don't let change take over your life, instead, take hold of the change and keep your mind open to the new opportunities and new experiences God is placing in your life.
~Kel